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If you want a relationship to work, you have to invest a lot of resources and make many sacrifices including: Simply put, the nature of most relationships will only break you down as your experiences have taught you.However on the other side, some people don’t deserve to have healthy relationships purely because they lack the essential qualities required to make it work. They want loving relationships but they want to control everything in the process.

Simply put, I can see why people are not interested in dating if all their experiences have only resulted in: For some people, relationships won’t bring anything but misery into their lives.

And this may be due to their behaviour, actions and/or beliefs about relationships, and what they signify.

How can a relationship work if you have no intention of trying to become a better person – whether that be physically, emotionally,or mentally?

In other words, what is the point of a relationship if you don’t want it to grow and flourish into something that can make you smile each day?

Shock horror, I don’t believe everyone was meant to find their ‘OH’ – not everyone is suited towards selflessness and compromise.

However, by the same token not everyone can continue to wear their heart on the sleeve as it gets torn to shreds right in front of them.

Hand on heart I couldn’t give you a single, honest, intrinsic motivational factor for why I got involved in relationships.

This was augmented by the fact that my life didn’t have a purpose, and therefore neither did my relationships.

I was doing it “just because” – there was no autonomous thinking behind it. Relationships might be the bread and butter of your existence and happiness – and thus it is a requirement for you to feel ‘whole’ and ‘complete’.

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