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2 View All Next »It’s been about six months or so since I addressed that perennial bugbear of nerd dating, the Nice Guy, and after some of the comments I’ve seen, on the blog and elsewhere, it seems like as good a time as any to revisit the topic.
Y’see, there are certain myths and misconceptions when it comes to dating that seem to have become axiomatic amongst men and chief among them is the classic “Women like assholes”.
Because of the way ape sociology works, the alpha male has the most access to food and the females.
It’s the cry amongst the hapless Nice Guys that women only like assholes and therefore ignore the Nice Guys who would, like, totally treat them with respect man…
Meanwhile, other men will tell you over and over again that you need to be the Alpha Male, that you need to be dominant and prove you’re her social superior. They’re staring at you from the covers of the gossip magazines and the front pages of TMZ with the latest arm candy.
As far as they know, as long as they emulate the traits of an asshole, they should be getting tail too.
And so, like a Pacific Islander cargo cult that thinks that building an ersatz air strip will lead to goodies raining from the skies, frustrated nerds, pick up artists and Nice Guys start acting like cocks in hopes of getting laid more often.
know nothing but the word of God." Martin Luther "We know that reason is the Devils harlot, and can do nothing but slander and harm all that God says and does Therefore keep to revelation and do not try to understand." Martin Luther "What harm would it do, if a man told a good strong lie for the sake of the good and for the Christian church?
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As they carp and moan and commiserate about how unfair life is, they’ll all agree that it seems as though women prefer to date assholes instead of nice guys like them, which provides seeming confirmation.
After all, if their friends are noticing this too, surely this means that there’s something to it, right? There’s a hell of a lot going on under the hood that we’re not even vaguely aware of or even able to control on a conscious level, and these are all things that lead up to answer the question of “Will I fuck this person or not?
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