Dating two women advice

Addressing the Active Profile Issue with Tact First off, let me say that this guy’s “reason” for keeping his profile online makes absolutely no sense to me.

He’s saying that since the people who are contacting him put in the effort to contact him, he should respond to them.

When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.

Silly logic aside, I would ask any reader who has this issue the same thing I asked the woman who contacted me: are the two of you EXCLUSIVE and have you both made it clear that you are only interested in dating each other?

Until the conversation happens, I would say it is fair for a guy to keep his profile up.

I get that idea and if he were actively looking to meet new people I could even agree…but if he’s only logging in to respond to new emails why not ?

His response actually makes me wonder if he even realizes that he could hide his profile.

Once you’ve decided to get a clearer idea of where your relationship stands, I recommend trying to start conversations as naturally as possible over a 2 to 4 week period.

Try not to force them but at the same time you will want to look for opportunities let him know that you need to know where you stand with him.

We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.

I am really interested in him and I get the feeling that he feels the same way.

I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.

I wish these readers had written me beforehand because this is often the worst approach to take (at least from this guy’s point-of-view). I do have some advice but let’s first look at one reader’s email and user this as an example for better understanding where you stand with your guy: I have been dating a man I met on for about 6 weeks – we go out regularly and he is always quick to make plans with me.

For the last few months this has been by far the question I’ve received most often from readers.

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